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Do I need a prenup and what does it actually do?

Reviewed by Main AI · Updated July 2026

SHORT ANSWER

A prenup defines what happens to assets and debts if the marriage ends — protecting premarital property, businesses, and inheritances, and shielding each spouse from the other’s debts. In most states it can’t decide child custody or support.

A prenuptial agreement is less about distrust than definition: it sets, in advance, how assets and debts are treated if the marriage ends — overriding your state’s default divorce rules. The classic use cases: protecting a business (so a divorce can’t force its sale or division), keeping premarital assets and expected inheritances separate, and walling each spouse off from the other’s debts — increasingly relevant with student loans. Hard limits exist: prenups generally cannot predetermine child custody or child support, and courts may void agreements signed under pressure, without full financial disclosure, or with wildly unfair terms. Validity essentials: full disclosure from both sides, independent counsel for each (required in some states, wise everywhere), and signing well before the wedding — not the week of.

What to do, in order

  1. Both parties fully disclose assets, debts, and income.
  2. Define separate vs marital property going forward.
  3. Address debt protection — each spouse’s existing obligations.
  4. Each side retains independent counsel.
  5. Sign well before the wedding — timing pressure can put a prenup at risk.

Common questions

Can a prenup decide child custody?

Generally no — custody and child support are decided at the time based on the child’s best interests. Prenup provisions attempting to preset them are generally unenforceable.

What makes a prenup invalid?

Missing financial disclosure, signing under duress (like days before the wedding), lack of independent counsel where required, and unconscionably one-sided terms.

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